What creates intimacy?
What makes it profound, full, nourishing,
We got used to believing that intimacy is created
between me and you in some magical way, when
a greater level of openness is allowed,
a verbal or non-verbal communication is expressed,
and a rare sensation of connection is experienced.
Interestingly enough, these qualities will not ensure
that it will last, evolve, deepen,
and that you, as an individual, will feel you are able
to keep on evolving in it,
while feeling the sacred space that you long for.
Most of the intimacies are based on subject and object relationship,
and an ‘illusionary’ sense of union.
The real magic is created when the path to your innermost,
is illuminated by your own fearless, egoless, restful notion
of care and curiosity.
(you might need to read this sentence again, go ahead and do that,
while breathing it profoundly into your cells)
[Video: Intimacy Beyond Duality 4:13 min]
When you’re in pure self-acceptance,
THERE IS nothing to hide
All is exposed and seen in its most natural state.
Nothing can hold you, no one can hurt you.
Has no place,
Since you have already dealt with a greater silent fear- of facing your demons.
You are immensely strong and open at the same time.
Your ability to welcome the other is based on awareness and not self protection.
As such, your intimacy can keep on evolving,
your co-creation expands, your prosperity blooms.
It might feel like I’m offering a utopian state,
it probably feels that way,
when you assume that you need to achieve this state fully, by yourself,
instead- look at it as something that can be created along the way, together,
each and both, gently and respectfully,
diving deep into the endless being that you are.
This is a vast topic,
let me know if and where you would like me to elaborate,
in the discussion area below,
and inspire us all -- how did you open to greater levels of intimacy?